If theres anything a man WILL NOT tolerate in a relationship, it aint bad cookin’, it aint bad sex…well maybe bad sex but the absolute deal breaker issssss….no need for a drumroll because you already know: CHEATING! It’s the age old question. Why will a woman stand by after being cheated on but a man will not? I’ve had quite a few chats with uncles, cousins and even my own father to figure this one out. What it boils down to is EGO. Most guy’s ego can’t withstand that type of blow. Cheat on a man and you might as well take away all his cash, deflate his muscles and slap a vagina on him. Ok, maybe that was drastic but you get the point. Continue reading after the jump.
One of my girls was in a long term relationship with her college beau. If you have any idea the amount of sex offerings being made on college campuses, you understand the type of pressure both of them had undergone. He, broke down to temptation, repeatedly. She stayed by his side. When she reached her breaking point, she cheated, and he left her. Is it fair, no. But is it the truth? You can bet your bottom dollar. Then you have those women who have an appetite for sex that is comparable to Wilt Chamberlain. They exist and some poor man is always falling in love with them and getting their heart broken. Some people just can’t be tamed and aren’t meant to remain with one person. Cheating is wrong any way you cut it, slice it or dice it. But think about this…when a man cheats, how does the girl relatiate? She might want to fight the sidechick. She might cry. She might slash tires. She might even come for the sneaker collection if she’s bold. But when a woman cheats, how do men retaliate? They want to kill somebody! LOL, it’s not funny but its the truth! Fellas let me get some feedback on this topic. What is a deal breaker for you? If it isn’t cheating then what is it?
Is that an M60 that guy is crazy.
Ego? Yeah, its a little bit that. But hard facts and human biology tell the bigger story.
The fact is, women can get pregnant. Men cant.
If you get pregnant from cheating it brings another life into the relationship and effectively kills it.
If a man cheats and gets a woman pregnant it changes nothing other than a little added monthly cost to the baby mama. You never have to see the kid. He probably won’t much either. Your relationship doesn’t have to change at all.
Not to mention the fact that we have more control over whether or not a woman gets pregnant than you do. A man can cum in you without you knowing until the last minute. People slip rubbers off without telling women all the time.
So, this is why men and women cheating isn’t equal. Mystery solved. Tell your girlfriends so they understand it too.
Cheating isn’t a deal breaker unless that particular female has been foul in some way. Females tend to stick around cheating boys out of fear of losing the comfort the relationship provides. It doesn’t always prove to be the smart thing to do, especially in cases of infidelity. Deal breakers can be a number of small things that add up over time; laziness, senseless arguments, failure to please him are some of those things. A guy may do foul things but not leave because of knowing he is in the wrong. A female cheating is just the formal excuse to make an exit. Ego is also a major part of the equation, losing control of love will eventually drive one of the parties crazy.
LOL This is a real Oprah and Dr. Phil topic…
At the end of the day – men lie, women lie but the numbers don’t and women cheat just as much as men however it just not as interesting I guess.. i.e. Tiger Woods, MJ, Magic Johnson there is an entire plethora of people that cheat and they’re various reason why.. but to me deep down in side we just want to enjoy life and to me Women are enjoyment… so I guess i can relate to that guy hanging off the balcony 🙂 Owww!! let the good times roll
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once a good girls gone bad…shes gone forever
That’s true Jazz…but we have to remember the level of integrity that is needed when you are in a relationship…the levels need to kick UP a notch when you are in a relationship…then they get kicked up again when you are engaged and so on as to when you are married…But, as for me, if my wife goes and cheats, I have to think about it…but, if my girlfriend cheats, then I’ll dump her…but, I feel you on the EGO part!
WOW @ PB…BECAUSE WOMEN CAN GET PREGNANT AND MEN CANT? WOW A CHILD PRODUCED FROM A CHEATING MAN ISNT AS BAD A S A CHILD FROM A CHEATING MAN?? WOW A BABY MAMA IS JUST A LIL EXTRA COST? AND YOU DONT HAVE TO SEE THE KID? WOW, THAT IS JUST IGNORANCE..PURE IGNORANCE
You can get mad at me, but you can’t get mad at biology. It’s the way we are made. The way men and women act is always perfectly explained by human nature and biology.