HOOD WINKED! BAMBOOZLED! Steer clear of the smokescreen…after the jump
1. She brought an overnight bag. This could be a smokescreen. If she pulls out an oversized t-shirt with little animals on the front…forget about it. Also remember the overnight bag might be hidden. Remember, a toothbrush and extra panties in a clutch could qualify as an overnight bag. Either way, there is NO GUARANTEE!
2. Freak-pic sent before the date. I personally have a no freak-pic rule. But most girls are into this type of stuff. It doesn’t necessarily mean that they plan on getting busy with you. Some women like to send these pics as an INCENTIVE for good behavior.
3. You guys made out. So, you two got hot and heavy in the movie theater…so what! You guys swapped spit and that’s about it. Most women can get hot and heavy and resist the temptation to seal the deal. In some cases this is a good sign that its going down…BUT NOT ALL THE TIME!
4. She told you that you were getting some. I don’t know WHY women write checks that they never intend on cashing! My guess is that women think this is what men want to hear. While there are those women who walk the walk, there are those who blow smoke until the last minute. Then after the date, make a mad dash to the car claiming they left the oven on in the house. LOL!
5. Sitting on your bed past midnight. So you guys are in the room…doing everything under the sun. Clothes are coming off, things are getting hot. Then all of a sudden she cuts the lights on and begins a conversation. Chances are, she’s stopping herself for some reason. The vibe isn’t right or she went farther than she wanted to.
Moral of the story is this: There is no way to guarantee you’re getting some. Closing the deal is an art that few have mastered! Remain cool and let the cards fall where they may!
Perhaps, it’s how one sets the mood without trying too hard and or not coming across as someone looking for just a one night stand. Not everyone is into a one night stand. Not everyone is quick to jump in the heat of the moment. Not everyone goes according to what is expected of them to do. it’s what’s in the best interest of the individual when it comes to making the right decision.