And when he get on, he leave ya ass for a white girl. -Kanye West (who’s current girlfriend is Kim Kardashian)
The white girl topic is like the elephant in the room right now. Everyone sees it, but no one wants to acknowledge it. Well, since today is #WhiteGirlWednesday, I said why not acknowledge said elephant. So after the jump, here’s 10 reasons black men prefer white girls (if you’re offended, f#ck you and your feelings).
10. White girls can get their hair wet. It’s summer time. Who wants to be at the pool with a girl who’ only concern is not getting her weave wet. White girls just jump in the pool without any care.
09. White girls don’t talk back. Put a little aggression in your voice and she will do whatever you say. That doesn’t fly with other races though. They wanna fight. Always.
08. It’ easier introducing them to your family/friends. “Everyone, this is Amber.” is WAY easier on the ears than, “Everyone, this is Shaniqua. Just saying.
07. White girls have WAY less restrictions in the bedroom than œother races. You can basically do whatever, wherever with them. And they’ll smile through it all.
06. White girls aren’t looking to be in a rap video. Meaning when y’all go out, she’s not looking for you to buy out the bar and light the club up with sparklers. She doesn’t care about any of that shit. She just wants her drinks and music.
05. White girls have no problem spoiling their men with gifts. The LOVE that shit! It’s an ego boost for them. (See Kim Kardashian’s birthday present to Kanye? Ok then.)
04. White girls don’t give you as many headaches as other races. There’s no nagging, complaining, and other annoying ass behavior. No running through your phone and wanting to know who such and such is.
03. White girls cater to and love to take care of their men. Cooking? No problem. Cleaning? No problem. Anything else you want? No problem.
02. You ever receive head from a white girl? I rest my case.
Which all really sums up my number 1 reason black guys prefer white women:
01. White girls are just more FUN. There’s no other way to put it. If you just want to have fun without any of the negative shit, get you a white girl.
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This list was clearly made by someone who knows not much about what he speaks. smh
Obviously this guy has never dated a white girl. This couldn’t be FARTHER from the TRUTH. The only people who will believe this is pretty much idiots. Go ahead date a white girl and find out the hard way.
With the exception of number two, I think you’re just talking about women with low self-esteem.\
Sincerely,
A White Girl
Where is the part about the him having a little dick and other races call him out?
Dumbest thing I’ve ever read, I’ve been with more white girls than other, cook what? Putting bread in a toaster is not cooking! *newsflash* all girls nag when they don’t get what they want, your right about white girls doing anything but you forgot to mention with how many people *practice makes perfect is it? Being with white girls is only good for a moment, but a black woman will make a house a home, and also know how to hold it down.
The guy that wrote this list is nuts. I have dated all races many times and from what I found is that white girls are willing to try a lot of different things, but that doesn’t make them better. Lazy is lazy no matter what the race and I have found lazy ass white girls, just like lazy ass black women, latin, asian etc. So this whole why black men date white women is dumb as hell. How about kicking a person to the curb if you two are vibing and you won’t have to deal with nagging. All black women and latin women don’t nag. Women who have their “ish” together will just charge you to the game and get someone who they have more in common with. Im not letting any female nag me to death.
This list is unbelievably wrong
I cosign everything the writer said…..matter of fact….I MISS that one white girl i dated…because every black women have dated since then has had anger management issues, bipolar disorder and just plain self hatred. Tired of having to be “daddy” to these broads, and not to mention the BAD MONEY MANAGEMENT SKILLS, …damn can a brother find at least ONE “SISTA” with some decent credit!!!!!….these women are headaches….and they wonder WHY WE WON’T MARRY THEIR SILLY ASSES……..for now on it’s TO HELL WITH TOMIKA, SHIKA, LATIKA and bring on ASHLEY, HOLLY and oh of course AMBER!!!!….life is too short for SOMEBODY to feel OBLIGATED to have to DATE someone of the same race………HAPPINESS IS THE PRIORITY….
Also white women’s pussy has a better flavor.
This is too funny. Boss, u sound like u just have really bad taste! Good luck!
Sorry, I meant Sam. Boss, my bad boo
LMBBBO! ;D So Flex When is White Boy or Latino Day? I’m Intrigued to See the Reasons Why “Brothers” Hate on “Sistas” that Date Outside their Race Like Me! Or Better Yet A Counter to “Ice’s 10 Reasons Black Guys Prefer White Girls” for “Why Black Women Should Really Try Something New!” #I <3 Attractive MEN Period!
White will nag the shit out of you, and alot of them are suicidal, so keep in mind a woman will get your ass locked up on some bullshit. We men just like anything other than our own race…
I agree
I AGREE!
I am utterly shocked that someone would flagrantly flaunt their ignorance and sheer stupidity by compiling such an asinine list and having the sheer nerve to put it on the internet. Come on, who wrote this? Uncle Ruckus?
Why do you black American men and women feel the need to tear each other down all the time with these demeaning stereotypes? Speaking as a man whose dated all kinds of women, this list is beyond laughable. The person who wrote this is either trolling for controversy or a total idiot. Either way, they’ve obviously never dated a white woman.
Anyway, let’s look at this one by one.
#10: My girlfriend and I are both black. She has no problem with getting her hair wet in the shower. Next…
#9: White girls don’t talk back!? In what parallel universe? Any woman can “talk back”.
#8: Dumb stereotyping. A black similarly confused black woman could stereotype black men the same way by replacing “Shaniqua” with “Tyrone”.
#7: From what I’ve observed from black Americans at least, black women can be just as freaky and uninhibited, just so long as it’s with a white man…
#6: Depends on the girl.
#5: Any woman who loves her man will do this. Not a race issue.
#4: Nonsense.
#3: My girlfriend cooks for me. Not ONE of my white exes ever so much as even made me toast. Again, not necessarily a race issue.
#2: My girlfriend has no problem with this either.
#1: This is generalising. One of my white exes never wanted to do anything fun ever.
Even if this is just meant to be tongue in cheek, it’s still a pretty shameful list, and speaks volumes about black on black gender relations in America (I know there are plenty of blogs where black women attack black men in the same way).
If you want to date white women, fine it’s your choice, but leave black women out of it. The same goes for black women and white men. Why attack the opposite sex of your own race? What purpose does it serve?
Cingeworthy.
Have you ever met a white woman before? You are clearly barely experienced dating white women. I have had girlfriends of every race… White women complain more, nag more, and talk back more than any other race by a lot. Sometimes when you just start dating a white women she hides her true personality for a year or so, but this is part of the game. Once it comes out… Lord help you. Asian women are the most docile, and even though black women talk back a lot in the beginning, they are actually more sensitive and listen better. Every race has its pros and cons but you are crazy if you think white women somehow behave better than black women.
Sorry but white women invented nagging and acting spoiled. No one else is better at this.
Yea, you might as well get a dog…that’s what it sounds like your describing….Here BOI…LOL…Well in his case..Here..B#*ch..lol
The sorry guy who wrote this article (not even an article but a piece of trash) and the other idiots who agree with him either have never dated/met any white girls or think that every woman should bow down to them.
I’m a black girl and I don’t know what kind of black girls you’ve seen and dealt with but we’re not all the same, and this list just shows how uncultured you and your supporters are.
Do grow a pair and actually get out to meet some women, and not try to pull assumptions out of your ass.
[...] I read an article that listed 10 reasons why black men love white women. The eighth or ninth reason was “It’s easier to introduce an Amber to your friends and family than a Shaniqua.” [...]
it dont matter what race you are…every race has flaws. black, white, hispanics, etc…all have flaws…the girl that makes u happy is the one u be with..if the white girl treat u better than black girl, go for it and vice versa. me myself i dont discriminate i dont care what race u are…u treat me like im number 1 ill treat u like theres no other woman on the face of the planet…those that say black girls are got attitudes and talk back and be bitchin….those the girls u choose to pick
I am sure his black mother is so proud….
[...] by one of “Black Twitter’s Elite Idiots”. Some guy name Ice wrote an article entitled “10 Reasons Black Guys Prefer White Girls”. I read. I shook my head. I realized how idiotic it all sounded. Then, I started thinking “This [...]
Actually you’re wrong. Black men that date white women get the ones white men don’t want. And black men have the uncanny ability to draw to most ratchet white women who then treat them like sh*t because the women know how much these dumb ass men worship their white asses by these ignorant articles y’all write. Take off your rose – (I mean white-) colored glasses and sit down.
This has to be the most ignorant thing I’ve read in a while. Sad that our own men think this way about us…but oh well. I really could care less about why black men prefer white women lol.
This is bullshit, White women don’t do shit for their men, they are spoiled, don’t clean cook or any of that like you say. You are thinking of HISPANIC or EUROPEAN women, american white girls are so spoiled an lazy.
You got some nerve Southside Sam. I bet you poor and don’t have nothing to show for and looking for a white girl to take care of you. Lol
NOW I WOULD CALL U OUT BUT THAT IS JUST WRONG OBVIOUSLY U R IGNORANT AND SMALL MINDED BUT SADLY TELLING A DEEP THRUTH TO MANY BLACK MAN LOVE THE WHITE GIRLS I WISH THEY WOULD LOVE THE SISTAS MORE AS WE ARE STILL LOVING IN THE BEST WAY
Thank you for this wisdom!
All this inter-racial hook-up crap is just that – crap. Eight more generations and we’ll all be one light brown race, anyway. A black man should have enough integrity to stick with the brown sugar.
Ok too the post and comments I’m a white female married to a hard working black man and the reasons on that list is not why we started dating or even got married we love each other we both work hard and both give a 100% I don’t believe you should judge by race but by who that person Is in everyday life
Please say this article was a joke because if it is serious then this is truly thet ignorant thing I have ever read. Whoever wrote this not only has never dated a white woman but has probably not dated any color woman ever. Pure stupidity at it’s lowest.
Ha, ha. You can tell that fool hasn’t dated one WW maybe a bar slut or sex worker but he doesn’t know WW, lol! Clearly!
Men like him are the reasons that BW have gotten the memo and are dating out more and more. BM the only men who make a cottage industry (rap music) dissing their mothers. BM the only men who use the N word around their WW then cry racism.
Lots of cool pages on facebook about BW dating out I like Black Women With Other Brothers the admin doesn’t let BM or WW post cause she say they have nothing to add to the convo.
I prefer tall thin Mexican women hot, hot, hot..
Shame on you Ice, for you to throw us black women under the bus with these racial stereotypes, you’re the reason why decent black men are given a bad name. For you to post something this juvenile on the internet not only are you burning bridges, but you’re being looked at as an obnoxious, self-centerd jerk with no education & wants to be babied. Only a desperate whore with low self-esteem would date you. A decent woman rather black, white, latina or asian would reject you in a heart beat. I hope my comment gave you a reality check because you sound like an ignoramus & it’s already bad enough that we as black women & black men are dating interracially for the wrong reasons except use excuses…..
ok first of all i am white and my man/bd is black he works i work and we take care of each other and our children, i love to cook for him and he loves to cook for me. we have alot of fun together because we injoy doing the same things, it has nothing to do with color its not just white women that nag, i have plenty of black female friends that i have seen nag there man as well. so all this black men should stick with black women talk is straight stupid, get a grip what century are we in people, i could say the same thing when it comes to black women dateing white men, but i will not bring my self down to some of these peoples level. o and when it comes to sex its great always has been always will be. we love each other and thats what matters
this is a lot of bull shit!!!! (10) white women wear weave also and those that do were weave don’t want to get their weave wet ether!!! (9)white women don’t talk back bullshit I have seen black men and white men get cussed out by ratchet white women (8) It’ easier introducing them to your family/friends.like hell it is! not every black family going is going to take to you having a white woman no matter what her name is! (7)White girls have WAY less restrictions in the bedroom than other races. You can basically do whatever, wherever with them. And they’ll smile through it all yea I guess you could do anything with them in the bedroom most black men don’t think about how many men been through white women before he was with her hummmm makes you think (WHORE). (6)White girls aren’t looking to be in a rap video. Meaning when y’all go out, she’s not looking for you to buy out the bar and light the club up with sparklers. She doesn’t care about any of that shit. She just wants her drinks and music. THAT’S A LIE MOST WHITE WOMEN WANT TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION!!she don’t want to buy the bar yet—-just wait tell she gets to know you and the first time she gets sloppy drunk and you end up paying $200 on drinks that song would change QUICK!!(5)05. White girls have no problem spoiling their men with gifts. The LOVE that shit! It’s an ego boost for them. (See Kim Kardashian’s birthday present to Kanye? Ok then.)YEA THEY DON’T HAVE PROBLEM SPOILING THEIR MEN THAT’S BECAUSE SHE’S GOING TO WANT YOU PAY HER BACK LATER (WITH YOUR MONEY) THAT’S GOING TO MAKE HER RICHER LATER ESPECIALLY IF
YOUR RICH ALREADY!! AFTER SHE MARRIES YOU AND FILES FOR DIVORCE GET HALF OF EVERYTHING AND MOST OF YOUR MONEY MAKES YOU THINK DON’T IT ??? (4). White girls don’t give you as many headaches as other races. There’s no nagging, complaining, and other annoying ass behavior. No running through your phone and wanting to know who such and such is. THIS IS ANOTHER LIE WHEN NOME BLACK MEN DON’T WHITE WOMEN I HAVE HERD HORROR STORIES ABOUT THIS FROM WHITE AND BLACK MEN NAGGING AND COMPLAINING HA BULL SHIT ANNOYING BEHAVIOR JUST GIVE IT TIME WAIT TELL SHE SHOWS THE REAL SIDE OF HER SELF NOT GOING THROUGH YOUR PHONE MAY BE NOT IN FRONT OF YOU BUT SHE WILL YOU COULD BET ON THAT!(3)White girls cater to and love to take care of their men. Cooking? No problem. Cleaning? No problem. Anything else you want? No problem.YEA SHE WOULD CATER TO YOU WHEN SHE FIRST MEETS YOU BUT WAIT TELL IT STARTS WEARING OFF COOKING AND CLEANING IS NO PROBLEM FOR A LITTLE WHILE BUT THIS WON’T LAST LONG BEFORE SHE WOULD BE ASKING YOU TO GET A MADE!1 (2) You ever receive head from a white girl? I rest my case.EVER THOUGHT ABOUT HOW MANY OTHER MEN SHE GAVE HEAD TO BEFORE SHE WAS WITH YOU PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE!!! (1)White girls are just more FUN. There’s no other way to put it. If you just want to have fun without any of the negative shit, get you a white girl. UM FUN HOW? THEY JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN UNTIL THINGS STOP GOING HER WAY AND STUFF START GOING SOUTH THEN YOU GET THE NEGATIVE SHIT!
You guys are STUPID!… These things apply to anyone who has ever truly loved. you would do these things. If your looking for a doormat, that gets old quick and yep Im white and altho I do cook and clean Im not a neat freak anymore and Im not your momma either, My 2 boys already applied for the position. Do I cook dinner yep, 3 meals a day? nope. will I do all your cleaning? nope. again my 2 kids already have that position filled. Even my kids will look at your ass and want to know ” when do you think your gonna start helping out around the house”? quoted because it happened. ohh the look on the mans face was priceless. Do I cater to my man in the bedroom? You damn right but I expect it to be returned. pamper him like do his feet and stuff yep, and no that doesnt need to be returned I just like rubbing on and physically taking care of him. I DO TREAT my man like a king but also expect to be treated the same… I do want to stick up for black women here on a few areas, 1. When I was in need ( I was young) black women are the ones that fed me,… when I wasnt doin good in life… it was a black woman to invite me into her home and nurse me back to health… It was black women that wanted make sure I got home safe and would borrow someones car if needed to get me home. When big dinners where cooked , it was a black woman who would always bring me a Hot plate. When I lived in a city all alone with my 2 kids it was ALWAYS black women who would invite me and my kids to their family gatherings at parks and they didnt even know me. ( It was white people that would ignore my kids when my kids wanted to join their lil b day parties at parks or whatever)( yea they are out going .. they kinda where like party crashers lol ) but if it was a black woman hosting a party me and my kids were ALWAYS invited to join them and have a plate and cake. Lets just call things what they are… you have cool loving people in life and you have nasty attitude, hating ignorant thinking than better than everybody else Ass holes. No race can point at another. There is good and bad in all….. I HATE RACISM with a passion, it hurts me to the core… you wanna know what really hurts tho…. Is fighting for equality amongst everyone my whole life including family that I love, and being outcasted by everyone because I love everyone. It hurts double for when fighting for equality and the very same people that I fight for and have reaped much heartache and criticism my ENTIRE 32 yrs of life… are just as evil and hate filled as the white people I have fought against…. NOT EVERYONE IS THE SAME. I think No body should limit themselves to dating any 1 color… Why let society put you in a box.. I fight for equality and love for everyone, not just myself. Ilove to see black women with other races too. I like to see interraccial relationships. When I see them, I know I dont fight completely alone.
I would also like to add a few more thoughts. every black womens house I have been in, has been clean. Although I cant speak for every black woman, but the truth is for most of us (women cuz im white), If you treat us good, you will be treated good back. If you want to be a part time man or a part time player, you will be treated as such and NO I dont want to suck that D, after you been ho’in, I imagine the same goes with black women too. Are you goin down on her? Bring your oral skills up and Im sure she will give you a mind blowing BJ with those beautiful full lips. If you a hoe, dont expect to be treated like a king, cuz you aint acted like one, at least NOT MY KING, Thats called EVERYBODYS MAN.Do Not blame other people for things not going your way in life. You have choices. I have been with black and latinos my whole life , BELIEVE ME I know racism exist, Ive seen from every color under the sun. DONT be like the scum you hate. Be BETTER. Ive had the pleasure of knowing a few successful black men, I know some have been treated unfairly at work, its not like that every where tho, but you know something, I have been treated poorly at work too, even accussed of sleeping with patients… wew I know they didnt expect the fire that came out of me for that one, thankfully I had great bosses at that job, one black female and a cool older white one, cuz I was on fire for that hatin ass shit.And those bitches KNEW I had a man that I was faithful too and to top it off, I just had back surgery and had a back brace on. ohh and another one I was pushed out the door of another job after my boss found out I was with a black man, treated like shit( prior to her knowing about my black man, she wanted me to date her son) I got stories for days. Remember EVERYONE dont let anothers hatred define your life, you only have 1, pray often and do the best you can and God brings miracles in your life. But first remove the hatred and double standards.
From a lot of experience. Dating many white girls black girls and ton of other races. This stuff is right. I was married to a black women once. Aweful experience. Nagging and complaining every single day. Although when we met she was really decietful and tried to act like a white girl until we got married and she turned all ghetto and gross. White woman are real woman. TRUST ME!!!!!!
Most black women have SEVERE MENTAL PROBLEMS!!! WATCH OUT!
2011 more mix babies was born than any one race of people having babies so every one is screwing out of they race. Its your life date who you want.
Generalization= A general statement or concept obtained by inference from specific cases.
I think that’s the only thing on which we can agree- that everyone makes their own generalizations (about race, dating, etc.), and draws different conclusions based upon their experiences.
For this reason, we will never ALL agree in a forum about such a detailed generalization, as was given by the author of this article.
First of all,white women can make a house a home.They work,they clean,they cook,they did it all too.One thing they don’t do is put up with the Bullshit some and I said some black women do..Why? Cause we don’t have to.I’m getting really tired of the race cards being pulled.And yes sweeties we hold no bars in the bedroom.So why Shaniqua won’t go down,honey we will.Just not on every in town,Lmao..If you want to be a cheatin,lying no good ass,GO GRAB YOURSELF A BLACK GIRL,cause white women know that shit isn’t cute.And one more thing WHITE MEN MAKE BLACK MEN LOOK BAD IN MORE WAYS THEN ONE.just like black women want to dip Vanilla,I see why!!!!!
One more thing.People also have a preference.White,black or whatever.Love knows no color.What works for you,do it.Thete are bad and good In everyone.Funny thing is,I been told when it comes to certain things about me,I have black girl traits.So guess I’m the best of both worlds.Pay my own bills clean my own house,will cook at 2 am if need be and much more.So put that In ya pipe and smoke It.
Your very dumb. I am black and just because she gave you hell don’t mean were are the same. And gross? Your gross and immature for judging. If white makes you real then what the fuck is you? So is it fair to say white men are better? I wouldn’t dare say something so uneducated. Your a dumb ass.
Cracker or sista, a woman is a woman – they all fucking crazy out there. Digging female crackers can get their hair wet though #realtalk. I’m hoping all this weave shit is gonna die out & black women start being proud of what they have. Shit, do I go out paying dollar to have a style like Rpatz or some other cracker? No fucking way.
I agree the list is horrendous but attacking white women makes u know better thank the guy who wrote the list in thd first place.
I agree the list is horrendous but attacking white women makes u know better thank the guy who wrote the list in the first place.
I agree the list is horrendous but attacking white women makes u no better thank the guy who wrote the list in the first place.
I agree the list is horrendous but disresecting white women makes u just as bad as the dude who wrote the list in the first place.
I dont think he is talking about skin color specifically, however a mind set, and how that girl was brought up, white girls from the suburbs behave like this, just not the ones that were spoiled when they were young, the ones who grew up seeing their moms please their dads
I’m mixed and my white mother and aunts and cousins do none of this, my mom doesn’t like getting her hair wet because she just got it bleached it, so this isn’t really true.
This is why black men will always suffer they are sell outs!! I know so many black men who dated white girls in their youth then realise it just isn’t worth it! Lol
Your mother obviously has as she gave birth to u! Lol
This is the most ridiclous article I have ever read in my life! Now for a man to come on here and speak so negatively about another race, it purely self hatred, anger or disappointment. If you are happy with being with a WHITE women, then enjoyed while you can, but do go around running your mouth off about another race. Now, this is the bullshift that we black females have to go through when men like you come on here and air out some sh***t to get attention. Clearly, your mamma aint black because you disrespecting a black women and speaking all those shi***t about her is you basically putting down your mom, aunt, sister ect.
Ashley you my dear are I see one of those trashey white girls I see and your most likely fat if your too stupid to see what ever black guy your with only wants you as a trophy and for sex and your money then I have no help for you white men will never want to be with a white girl once she has been with a black guy why would we if it,s a size thing with you guess this white guy is hung as well as any black guy so just admit you are a hoe and the only guy you can get is black I see it all the time women I would never touch either fat or ugly with a black guy cause black men will sleep with anything good luck being cheated on and used keep your dieses away from us
Hey all, I’m a white man, and I think can understand why black men are attracted to white woman—largely for the same reasons we white men are attracted to WW. White woman are typically raised to be calm and friendly—you might even say passive. You all know, the in general, it is true. So no pissing and moaning about it—fact. WW can be great communicators and from what I see around me they offer less drama in a man’s life no matter his color. As a white man I find white woman just less sharp-edged. The silky hair is great, and their skin is just more attractive and can get great tan lines. Black woman may have better butts, but white women have nicer legs, and let’s face it , WW are just a better package of looks and personality IN GENERAL. Every race has exceptions—there’s a good share dumb ugly white trash woman, but honestly exceptions don’t prove the rule. Straight up, rich or educated black men can pretty easily attract white women, but most loser black guys get the hand-me-down white trash. I guess that it works out for both BM and poor WW. These are people that live near each other in the public housing or whatever. The WW are going down hill after a divorce and they have kids, stress, a low paying job, they begin to get fat, and develop self esteem issues– and happy to have attention from assertive black men. It is probably a relief not to be lonely and to have someone, at least for a short time, shower you with attention. Their black lovers find the relationship with WW refreshing break from the usual shit that goes on between BM and BW. This must be really tough on BW and they are deeply offended as they feel worthless– which adds to their anger and attitude. BTW, most white men don’t like to see BM and WW together because they feel it is a rejection of their more stable culture– and the European way we raise our families in a less stressful environment. I’m not saying it’s perfect, I’m just saying it’s better. So when we see a white woman act black and go with a BM we feel like this is a rejection of us as people and our culture–trading us for something completely different. We might wonder what the WW is thinking or what she’s gone through to make that choice. Is it daddy hate, does she really like the swag of black men, their bodies, or their longer dicks. Or, is she just messed up in the head. We wonder but we may never know. I can’t say for sure, but I’m guessing BW feel this even more because they are, alas, on the bottom of the social strata. So they have to wonder—shit isn’t there anybody who thinks I’m desirable sexually or as a life partner? I know it sounds awful but as a white man I have it made. We get to be with WW our whole lives and then settle down with one we really want to make more white kids with and spend the rest of our lives with. Most of the WW I have known like my sisters, my mother, grandmothers and aunts have been really amazing. Sorry for going on and on and sounding arrogant, but I wanted to be clear and honest in my opinion.
It’s a sad shame that the world has come to a point that compiling a list of absurd and biased opinions is the only way to express ones-self. Truly a shame. I am a black girl; while I understand the anger behind some of these comments, have no anger, brethren. The Bible advises us to speak not in the ears of a fool, for he will not understand the wisdom of your words (Pro. 23:9). Clearly, this list was created by a hopelessly insecure individual, but we should not further his insecurities by trash-talking him–let’s pray for him! But first, let me refute his obviously ignorant points with a few of my own.
10) Black girls tend not to get their hair wet because they prefer it to be straight, which wouldn’t be possible when wet–not because they have some sort of phobia to water. There are also plenty of curly-haired white girls who don’t want their hair wet.
Further, most pools contain a chemical known as “chlorine”, which cleans the pool, but will ruin anyone’s hair if not treated properly.
#repeatchemistryclass
9) To say that white girls don’t “talk back” is clearly a coincidental analysis; anyone can get testy when annoyed or upset.
8) In case no one has yet noticed, my name is actually not Sheniqua, Bon’qui-qui, or Jai’on-nai–it’s Samantha. If you can’t pronounce that name, I highly suggest you invest in a speech and language pathologist. Literacy and enunciation are issues that should be taken more seriously. Point being, don’t stereotype, especially with regards to names; I’ve met some strangely-named white girls, as well.
7) I do not know how you came to this conclusion, but I recommend you reanalyze your claim… and your past experiences in bed–assuming you’ve even had any.
#moded
6) Classifying someone’s party personality–as outgoing and desiring music to have fun or calm, collected and just enjoys a nice meal and conversation–cannot be done by race. I know plenty of people of all races who fall randomly into both of these categories, and many unmentioned ones at that. In actuality, there is nothing wrong with either of these alternatives.
5) Some women can’t afford to shower their men with gifts. We must remember that Kim Kardashian is a celebrity, and she can afford it. Plenty of aspiring white girls struggle to make ends meet on a daily basis. Even if one can afford to shower her significant other with gifts, one has no obligation to do so–that isn’t what relationships are about. If the foundation of your relationship is on material things, it won’t last anyways.
4) Once again, people behave differently in different situations. If you are acting shady or suspicious, any woman is going to want to know the status of your relationship. This conclusion cannot be drawn from a race-to-race analysis, but rather person-to-person.
3) I hate to say this again, but due to the continual ignorance of these assertions, I must: this is not even a racial dispute. Plenty of girls from all races cook; plenty of girls from all races would rather not cook. If this is really that big of an issue to guys, looks like all of us girls are going to culinary school!
2) I really don’t understand the relevance of this claim at all. No comment.
1) Of all of these statements, this is the most disconcerting to read. Fun is a matter of perception. It has been said that “the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice; the darker the chocolate, the richer the taste.” These are undeniable facts that simply cannot be disputed.
If you choose to look down upon perfectly capable black girls, that’s your business. But when you try to influence others to join in your idiocy, that’s when the line gets drawn. To conclude, but black girls have it hard enough when trying to find a true, nonjudgmental love–don’t make it harder for black girls to live confident, healthy lives with uniformed ignorance such as this blog.
I hope your perception of black girls is changed, and never stop looking for an exception to the rules.
Sincerely,
Samantha
A Black Girl
WE WHITE GIRLS ARE JUST EASY. WE LOVE TO FUCK ANYTIME ANYWHERE. WE’RE JUST SLUTS BIG SLUTS, SMALL SLUTS, STD SLUTS ANY WAY YOU WANT IT. WE GOT IT
well, looks like co-co has found another master lol. or …ice old a** is now a non-factor..
White girls aren’t looking to be in a rap video. Meaning when y’all go out, she’s not looking for you to buy out the bar and light the club up with sparklers. She doesn’t care about any of that shit. She just wants her drinks and music…( I CANT TELL..AND HE FROM THE HOOD)
I am a black guy and I have dated black girls before, but for a while I have been dating white girls and I have a white girlfriend now. I would say the deep rooted reason why us black men prefer white women is they are far more attractive than our black women. Its the truth. Black women are very masculine comparing to soft and more feminine like white women. On the other hand us black men are the real deal too. We got bigger dicks and we look way more maculine than oher races
I will start off by saying how funny it is 2 b searchin 4 one thing on the internet and stubble upon lets just say an interesting conversation! ok so im a black woman and the one that and i quote all men of any race dream about. I have been asked on date by every male race on the planet and did date a few but nothing to serious… chinese man (he was very rich and very generous n every way ) latin man (he was super good lookin and had a great high payin job but was super short and tiny) Puerto Rican men (btw black woman puerto rican men luv black women) oh super hot they always are got money they always do but got major control issues more than black men so b prepared for that) a few others but 2 sum this section up i never dated a white man not 2 say that i have not been asked out by them like a million times… so yea dont think 4 a sec that WM r not attracted 2 BW cuz that is a lie and that goes 2 that WM who said WM dont desire BW that is a lie I have plenty of friends who r BW who husband is WM and not bottom of jar but educated, good lookin and support their family type just saying but I never I dated a WM cuz at the end of the day I luv my BM they r so amazing! And maybe that is cuz I always had decent caring amazing, good looking great bodies BM n my life. Most BM r amazing they r caring, passionate, loving and they love kids, funny and just know what 2 do n bed. I have been married 2 my sex God for 6 six years now and we have 2 beautiful children and r happy. And we r a happy BF that everyone loves 2 c out and about. And yes I do everything on that list but I do nag sometimes cuz men need 2 b nagged n2 doing some shit sometimes. and my hubby gives great head better than anyone else so all this bs that BM dont give BW head is a lie 2. this is ridic at the end of the day ladies if u wanna get married no matter what race u r u gotta b able 2 put ur man 1st on ur list. when u n a relationship and u get up 2 make u something 2 eat make him a plate 2 that is what he wants so give it 2 him. if his D gets hard and he wants sum P give it 2 him that is what he wants especially if u got a hot man dont have him think 4 a sec he can get it better from anyone else and yes u gotta suck that D like u mean it and luv it cuz that is what he wants. He wants that house clean, kids clean, dinner on table floor mop etc cuz this is what he wants. no woman is going 2 get married if she dont do these things even if her P is that bomb she will eventually get traded up 2 someone else…
Kim Kardashian is not even white!!!! And black women/girls, I am telling you as a black girl, do not get mad over this bullshit. This was written by a man who probably cannot handle a strong woman of any race.
This article could been written from the authors experience with white girls. Many of the things do occur when dating white women, but not necessarily all of them at once. I dated black women up until I was in my mid 30′s. Then I started dating white girls because where I lived had very very few black girls to choose from. I noticed some of the things that the author described above and was confused a little. I was like: Some white girls wash their hair every night? Many of the sisters I knew would go days without washing their hair. But, I later learned from a hair dresser that white women’s hair does not hold up as well as black girls hair if not washed regular. White girl’s hair can’t hold grease/body oil well where black girls hair does good with oil. I also noticed that white girls often had something to offer up front when dating. The ones I experienced felt weird if they did not have a comparable career or life accomplishments as I had. This was an issue for some of them and I had not seen that much with black girls I dated.
And not all white girls that black guys date are the ones not wanted by white men. I bet you can ask most white girls you see and most of them will say they have at least dated 1 black guy. I have heard several white guys say that black men are taking many of the pretty white girls.
Overall, there are many different types of black girls and white girls. Many of the more accomplished back girls act very similar to white girls. These black girls do not fit the common stereotype of black women. They are sensitive, sweet, curious, freaky (sometimes), not loud or abrasive, etc. I know several black girls that are really nice, down to earth, and desirable. I also know many white girls that are the same way.
BTW I currently date a white girl and she is no pushover. She don’t take no shit from anyone black or white. I have seen her in action and was really shocked that she stands up for herself in that way which is against the common stereotype of white girls.
Bitch please. One my name is not Shinqua, it’s Sequoia. Two the summary of your whole “fact sheet” is that white girls are hoes, and dont have any respect for themselves. Just so we are CLEAR not all black girls are GHETTO ,so before you post your opinions as a fact sheet get a black girl with CLASS like myself.
Has anyone considered the white girl who’s been hanging with Shaniqua, etc? Whole new breed of drama…
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I don’t think it’s right for you to lump all black women in one category. You can’t judge what has been taught. Do you think money management just comes to you? No it society telling us we need the latest thing rather than saving for a house or your future. Date who you want, you’ve had some bad experiences granted but it’s sad that you think it’s the only way to live. There are good people out there that you refuse to give a chance to because of your perceptual views. If we all thought likes this where are we going to be in the future… everyone just hating everyone. That’s sad.
I’m a white girl (french) and i can say to you … I’m really a pain !!
I don’t know what kind of white girl you date, but really … we are not like you said.
The way black men and black women criticize and beat up on each other is so sad. The comments on the blog are so ignorant I can’t believe people are actually saying that . The ignorant stereotypes are ridiculous. Don’t you see you are doing exactly what the white man wants : a division within African American families, unions and couples. They want you to hate yourself and use other races to validate your race. Deactivate your Willie lynch chip!!!
Stable women respect themselves. Doesn’t matter the flavor. This whole black/white/asian men prefer women because whatever is just silly.
Tacking on a behavior to an entire group is childish & naive. Humans are attracted to variety. It’s that simple.
I laughed at this whole thing, whoever wrote this needs to impaled with a spear so we can have one less idiot in the world.
I always figured it was because black women are fat & ugly, and Asian women won’t touch black men.
[...] I read an article that listed 10 reasons why black men love white women. The eighth or ninth reason was “It’s easier to introduce an Amber to your friends and family than a Shaniqua.” [...]
I love white girls especially the thick ones
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Black boys, yes I said BOYS will never be men because this is the sad and pathetic list this dumbass kneegrow put out. To ICE and all rest of you stupid kneegrows, why don’t you come up with a list of why you can’t prospor and grow like white men do? Or 10 ways to stay out of prison? Or, how to be a daddy and take on your responsiblities? I could go on and on. BW arent your enemy ICE. But black boys like you to busy f*cking the real enemy’s daughter.
Um, appearently this dude REALLY don’t know white women like MOST black men don’t. I guess all it takes for black men is a phony smile and the flip of her hair and he’s on cloud nine. Well, I feel sorry for ya bro. I dated every color in the rainbow and aint nothing like a black woman. BW have this flavor about them that no other woman can touch IMHO. Oh well, to each his own.
And by the way, since a lot of BM feel this way, then how can I put this lightly, ummmm, well, LEAVE ME AND MY WIFE THE HELL A LONE AND STAY AWAY FROM BW WHO MARRY/DATE WHITE MEN!!
[...] of the black community. Recently I came across this article, which was written in response to this article, both of which purported to list reasons why many blacks prefer to date outside of their race. [...]
No one is going to address why Black men are the only one who cross over lines as much? Self Esteem issue. Black men do not want responsibility whether rich or poor. Look at Tiki Barber ran from asian wife to yt woman. It is not a black woman problem. No other races men does this- Run from Responsibility. If that black man has no Strong mindeset he will move to the next and do the same- regardless if girl is black or white.
Black PRide is not taught in black community. Yt media makes us shun black and dark PEriod. We teach kids DARK is automatically bad in every movie cartoon, etc.
“STAND FOR SOMETHING OR FALL FOR EVERYTHING”
a MAN WITH BLACK PRIDE IS NOT AS FOOLISH OR IGNORANT- tHEY KNOW THE TRUTH. a FOOL LIKE THE PERSON WHO WROTE THIS ARTICLE HAS NO BACKBONE AGAINST YT CULTURE- hE IS PrAISING AND UPLIFTING YT MAN SEED. pRODUCT OF VIDEOS AND IGNORANT LOW CLASS RAP.
WHY BLACK MEN ARE THE MAINS ONES WHO DO THIS- YT AMERICA HATES THEIR SKIN AND SO DO THEY. ONLY CULTURE THAT DEGRADES THEIR WOMEN TO THIS DEGREE. PERIOD!
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AHHHHHHAAAHAHA Who needs white power when you black self hatred. Thats your mother and sister your talking about, shit for brains!
THIS IS COMPLETELY WRONG. Im a white woman who is married to an American Indian man and i can be a wench just like any other color skin can be. You are wrong, im not spoiled by any means, i keep my house and myself clean. I have never been with a black man, and no not because i am racist, but because i fell for my husband.
I have no problem pleasing my husband in every way because he treats me with respect and never takes my love for granted.
So all you idiots who say black, white etc women are no good why dont you think about how you treat them? Before i got married, i was treated like total crap in past relationships. That is why i treated them like crap!!!!
And black women are beautiful! Who cares about hair, skin etc.????? There are alot of extremely shallow ppl on here!
Also, any race can have a nice booty! Some guys dont like big butts and some do.
Why cant people just realize that beauty is in the eye of the beholder?
Everyone is different for a freakin reason..this truly pisses me off.
BTW. For those who are saying, “THE WHITE MAN” wants u to hate yourself….claiming that all white people are racist, is DOWN RIGHT IGNORANCE.
I was not there when black people were put through those awful things and if i was i would have been fighting for them to be free.
I am pro-human, which to me means we are all equal.
Now if you want to point fingers, perhaps the white man should create a cracker-fund.
Just sayin, THE RACIAL CARD IS NO LONGER WORKING. We are all responsible for our own actions.
Find something better to do than to attack me, dont put me in that category. YT AMERICA? seriously, cut the crap.
JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE- LOVE YOURSELF- & HAVE HOPE
”PEACE”
http://missjia.com/2012/07/26/reader-sound-ten-reasons-black-women-prefer-white-men/
lool i read a lot of comments this is funny how mostly love isnt a part of the deal anyway criticizing white girls is not a answer, furthermore, ice is a jackass cause this list IS an insult for white woman FIRST, before being an insult for sistas. I’m a beautiful french black girl thanks to God, and i really think love which contains respect,care,kindness etc is the most important thinG!!! color issues aren’t pointless just praise the Lord for who u are and be hhhhaappy, and loving FULL STOP
This is hilarious.
Both articles are equally funny I laughed my ass off. Race is only a factor if you make it! People need to use their modifiers i.e some, a few, many, but NEVER ALL. Even one nonuniform example disputes your whole case thus making you sound like an ignoramus and that’s whats wrong with stereotypes and generalizations. People need to stick to personality traits hell judging off of Zodiacs is probably more accurate than judging off Race and even Zodiacs aren’t always true. Lol. People are crazy as cat shit, lazy as cat shit, and shitty as cat shit in every race!!! PICK YOUR POISON
I agree for the most part. White chicks give good head but I’ve had some incredible amazing freaky blow jobs from black and Latina women too. Nice big lips! This is a white guy talking btw..
You’re an idiot. The only thing that would bring you close to justifying your list is trying out every girl of every other race, and you’d still wouldn’t be accurate because, this is according to your preferences.
Kim is not white.
Crock of shit. In my experience, Black Women appreciate what White Women take for granted.