In a recent article called “How To Ask For Anal Sex,” woman speak on the right way to have anal sex.

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Writer Sarah Jane Banahan,

I read somewhere recently that now it is more respectful to “initiate” to your partner beforehand about wanting to try anal sex via text message, or phone call. Oh please! How about a slight whisper in the ear while you penetrate your women, isn’t that just a little more erotic?

Bianca Laureano, award-winning sexologist and Latina spoke on penetrating woman.

“Articles like this are dangerous because they give men (it was a heterosexist article) the impression they may do something sexual with a partner without their consent.”

In other words no means NO.

Banahan stated,

“The media has gone bonkers because they don’t understand and call it ‘rape’ it’s absurd! This article was implied for partners not strangers and not friends.”

She went on to say,

“What works is when you are both prepared. What doesn’t is when you are in a new relationship and the topic of anal was never mentioned—getting to know one another is a learning process and I never said do anal without lube with a complete stranger (as it feels the media quite ridiculously are portraying). Some women despise it and that’s their prerogative. I am experienced and I enjoy it (my article was sharing MY experience).”

Source: Complex