Maybe she’s busy. Maybe she has a lot on her plate. Maybe she just had a bad break-up. Maybe I just need to work my magic. Maybe she’s a lesbian. Or…maybe she’s just not feeling you! HEY STUD MUFFIN!…I know this might be difficult to comprehend…read on for better comprehension.
I get so sick of men saying “Women are indecisive.â€Â or “Women don’t know what they want.â€Â Those phrases are annoying but they hold a bit of truth in all but one facet of life. Women know from the time they set eyes on you whether or not they are in to you.  We are great readers of swag, confidence and things of that nature. If your bait is good, we bite. If your bait is not good, we do not bite. It’s as simple as that. Here are a few ways to tell if she’s not really digging you:
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SHE DECLINES THE NUMBER EXCHANGE: Be clear on what I just said. Key word: EXCHANGE. Just because a woman accepts your number does not mean she will call or that she’s even interested. I’ve taken numbers just to be nice and I’ve also taken numbers to get a guy out of my face. You’ll know if she’s interested if she gives YOU the digits. If not, keep it movin’!
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SHE PUTS YOU ON TEXT WAITING: Say you move past the number exchange. You guys have spoken on the phone once or twice. If she takes hours to answer a text, you guessed it: SHE’S NOT THAT IN TO YOU! I don’t care who you are, if you are feeling a guy you are gonna be looking forward to that next call or text. I don’t care if you’re Kim Kardashian, you’re gonna scroll through all your spam texts looking for the text from that special guy. That’s just how it goes.Â
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YOU CATCH HER LOOKING AT YOUR FRIEND: And I don’t mean the ‘nice to meet you look’. I mean the ‘damn he’s fine!’ look. Say you’ve been dating and it seems as though you guys are not connecting beyond that point. Peep how she acts when your friends are around. If she’s overly social, do not be alarmed. She could just be aiming to please. But if you catch her making goo-goo eyes, DITCH HER AND THE WHOLE OPERATION! Why? Because you guys aren’t official and if she wanted to be official she’d keep her wandering eyes in check. The goo-goo eyes is an indicator that she’s not into you and she’s still looking. You, my friend, are serving as a meal sponsor…at best a good convo. Just being honest.Â
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SHE CANCELS ON YOU: Unless you’re dating a work-a-holic or she’s tending to a sick relative or something, it’s pretty hard to get a woman to break plans.  Especially if she likes you! While guys will cancel a date in order to hang out with the fellas, this simply does not ring true with women. We’d rather be on the date playing footsie with our boo than be up under our girls. So, if a woman cancels a date with you it means she is SIMPLY NOT THAT INTERESTED. When she agreed to the date, you thought it was locked in but in her mind the date was ‘tentative’. In the event that something better came along she’d ditch you…which she did. This happens to men and women alike. It’s part of the GAME!
It’s important to roll with the punches though! If you find that SHE’S NOT THAT IN TO YOU…move on homie. It’s too many people out here to get stuck on one!
There is no need to dwell on a person who is not interested in you. As it simply means, that person is just not meant to be for you. Why worry about people who are not into you. Just keep in mind, there’s always light at the end of the tunnel. I’m sure there’s someone out there who will be into you providing the feeling is mutual. People who are NOT into you should not even be a concern to you. They are people who are just not meant to be part of your life.