Daren writes:

 

“Dear #IFWT, every time I fall out with my girl, she does slick stuff on facebook…”

 

Read more after the jump!

 

@jazzyvadney

 

“The last time she posted “I don’t have time for patty-cake and duck-duck goose, where r the guys who are done playing games”  I won’t front like I didn’t deserve it but it annoys me that she keeps doing that.  Its petty.  How do I nip that sh!t in the bud?” 

Well, well,well…so you messed up and now you want to control her response.  All things considered, you have way more control over your actions than you have over hers. That being said, you need to first regulate those actions that provoked her antics in the first place.  Scouting for a new love interest on FB is never coolbut you said she was warranted which means you know whatever you did to provoke this public tongue-lashing was going to upset her.  Now, ask yourself, is what you did worth the headache from your girl.  If the answer is no, then you need to try your best not to do whatever upset her.  Now, when she begins to do petty stuff like that and its totally unwarranted, its time to again, CONTROL YOUR ACTIONS. Simply offer her NO RESPONSE.  In situations like this silence is GOLDEN!  Give her the silent treatment and sooner or later she’ll get that you’re above all the antics.  Because truth be told, posting your business on Facebook also is very childish. 

 

Hope that was helpful! 

 

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