R&B crooner Neyo has been catching some serious heat after he and his baby mama Monyetta Shaw broke up because he moved on to another woman named Crystal Renay rather fast. In honor of her 35th birthday, Neyo took to his Instagram page to give his BM a big b-day shout out. Neyo captions his post to Monyetta:

To a great person, a great mother…. and a great friend. HAPPY BDAY @monyettashaw #FamilyFirst #AllLove

At least he’s man enough to show the woman who gave his child life some love on her b-day, despite their current relationship status. It’s always commendable when a man can do that as apposed to bashing their former lovers.